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Helpful Books

Recommended Book List for women

  • Urban Tantra – Sacred Sex for the 21st Century by Barbara Carrellas

  • Women who run with wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés

  • Women who love too much by Robin Norwood

  • Shame is over by Anja Meulenbelt

  • Cry hard and swim by Jacqueline Spring

  • Feel the fear and do it anyway by Susan Jeffers

  • A Woman in Your Own Right: Assertiveness and You by Ann Dickson

  • The mirror within by Anne Dickson

  • My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday

  • My mother, my self by Nancy Friday

  • A Woman’s Experience of Sex by Sheila Kitzinger

  • Becoming Orgasmic by Julia R. Heiman & Joseph LoPicollo


Recommended Book List for men

  • Multi-orgasmic Man: The Sexual Secrets That Every Man Should Know by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams Arava

  • The New Male Sexuality by B. Zilbergeld

  • Enchanted Boy by Richie McMullen

  • Enchanted Youth by Richie McMullen

  • Men in Love by Nancy Friday

  • Iron John by Robert Bly

  • I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terrence Real

  • No More Mr. Nice Guy! by Robert A. Glover


Books for men and women

  • The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort

  • The Greatest Guide to Sex by Julie Peasgood

  • Codependent No More by Melody Beattie


Useful Links

Transgender Links



Jammidodger Youtube blogger  


Youth information on Sexual Health Links




Sexual Enhancers and Accessories Links

The pleasure chest 

Hot Octopuss

Sh! women's emporium


Sex Education on Female Masturbation Link




A Therapist's Creed

We are here to listen…not to work miracles…

We are here to help you discover what you are feeling… not to make the feeling go away…

We are here to help you identify your options… not to decide for you what you should to do…

We are here to discuss steps with you… not take steps for you…

We are here to help you discover your own strength… not to rescue you and leave you still vulnerable…

We are here to help you discover that you can help yourself… Not to take responsibility for you…

We are here to help you learn to choose… not to make it unnecessary for you to make difficult choices…

We are here to provide support for change…


Ethical Principles of COSRT

The code is underpinned by the following ethical principles:




striving for the highest standards of professional competence, integrity and fitness to practise.




for the dignity, autonomy and right to self-determination of the Client.




promotion of the wellbeing of the Client and acting in their best interests.




avoidance by the Member of exploitation and abuse: that is to do no harm to the Client.




commitment by the Member to work on the basis of equality, transparency and fairness.

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